What to do when your pet dies at home
In short: If your pet has died at home, there’s no need to rush. Call your vet, who can guide you through the next steps. Then decide between cremation and burial at home, and if you choose cremation, many crematoria can collect your pet from your home.
We’re so sorry. If your pet has just died at home, you may feel shocked, numb or unsure what to do. The RSPCA says that feeling numb or disoriented after a sudden loss is okay. There is no need to rush. These steps are based on guidance from the RSPCA, PDSA and Blue Cross.
1. Call your vet
The RSPCA advises contacting your vet as soon as you can. Your vet can guide you through the next steps, including caring for your pet’s body and the options for burial or cremation (RSPCA: what to expect when saying goodbye to your pet).
If it’s outside your vet’s opening hours, their phone line or website will usually tell you how to reach their out-of-hours service.
2. Take a moment to say goodbye
If you have other pets or children, you may want to give them a chance to say goodbye too. Blue Cross has advice on supporting children through pet loss.
3. Decide between cremation and burial
You don’t have to decide straight away. Your options are:
- Cremation. The RSPCA explains that cremation can be arranged through your vet or directly with a pet crematorium. You can choose individual cremation, with your pet’s ashes returned, or communal cremation, without ashes returned.
- Burial at home. The RSPCA says this must be on land you own, away from water sources, with the grave at least 1.2 metres (four feet) deep and your pet wrapped in a biodegradable material such as a natural fibre blanket. If you’re unsure about local rules, check with your vet or local council.
4. Arrange collection
Many crematoria can collect your pet from your home, so you don’t have to move them yourself. When you call, they’ll tell you what to do while you wait, and how they’ll take care of your pet. If your pet is large, mention their rough weight and whether there are stairs. Read more about home collection.
You’re also welcome to request a callback or call 0117 463 3838, and we’ll talk you through it.
5. Look after yourself
Losing a pet can be very painful, especially suddenly. Blue Cross runs a free and confidential Pet Loss Support service, open 8.30am to 8.30pm every day, on 0800 096 6606, by email at plsmail@bluecross.org.uk, or by webchat (Blue Cross Pet Loss Support). See our pet loss support page for more.
This page summarises guidance from the RSPCA, PDSA and Blue Cross. It isn't veterinary advice. If you're unsure about anything, please ask your vet.